Lauren Leakan
3rd and 4th hour
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Washington’s virtue of self-restraint was evident in early America because early Americans, when creating this nascent nation, took into consideration the long term effects it would create. The long term effects could make or break the new nation. Washington himself even used this virtue when he was relinquished power as Commander and chief of the army instead of asking for a higher office or political power. The only thing he asked was to be allowed to return to his private life at Mount Vernon. He also showed restraint when he didn’t accept to become king of the New World, as suggested by Lewis Nicola. Washington believed that each citizen should be able to control or restrain themselves otherwise they would need a state police. Washington addressed this virtue in his First Inaugural Address by stating “Labor to keep alive in your breast the little spark of celestial fire called conscience.” He wanted to stress our conscience knows the difference between right and wrong.
Self –restraint in our society today is still practiced by some Americans, like Gabby Gifford for example. Gabby Gifford recently resigned from her position as an Arizona Representative. After the 2011 shooting incident, Representative Gifford was hospitalized due to a shot to her head while holding a public event outside. She is slowly regaining her motor skills and realized that the state of Arizona might be better off without her as their representative. She decided to resign to help the state in the future. This is self-restraint because she humbled did it for the betterment of others and not just because she wanted the job as Representative. She still has humility even after the terrible incident that happened to her and that has affected her family. This is exactly what Washington was talking about when he said “each citizen must be able to control or restrain himself. Gabby Gifford is a present day example of self-restraint still being practiced in America.
I apply self-restraint in my own life by listening to my conscience to help me determine what is right and wrong. I also apply self-restraint in a different way, I look at how fortunate I am compared what it could be. An example of this would be if I was at the store I could by a new outfit for me, or I could give that outfit, or the money I was going to use to buy it with to someone less fortunate that I am. I have had some humbling experiences in my life that have brought me to realize what self-restraint really is. I practice self-control. I can apply self-restraint in my own life more often however. When my mother tells me I can’t go somewhere or hang out with someone because I have to do chores or visit my Grandma I can resist my urge to become mad at her. I can understand why she isn’t letting me go, or maybe I could even suggest we go visit my Grandma more or offer to do something. I can use self-restraint to control my emotions for my selfish needs and become more selfless.

